Including Your Dog in Your Wedding or Elopement

If you are anything like us, you love your dog. A ton. If it was up to us (and allowed), we would take Aspyn everywhere with us. If you are anything like that, we have good news! You can absolutely find ways to include them in your big day! There are a variety of ways to do this, and a lot of the decision making will come down to how and where your day’s festivities are taking place. Here we outline a few different ways you can include them either in your wedding, or on related sessions.

#1 - Bring your dog to your engagement session!

If your wedding does not make sense for inclusion of your furry friend, you can consider bringing them on your engagement session. This is a very low stress, often not time sensitive situation that allows a lot more photo opportunities with your pup. Additionally, you can utilize the images for your wedding invites as well!

#2 - Include them in your Wedding or Elopement Ceremony

This is the one most people think of when thinking about including your dog in your special day. However, its important to keep in mind where and when the ceremony will be taking place. If you are eloping: does your chosen location allow dogs? Many national parks do not allow dogs or if they do, they are only allowed within 50 feet of major roads within the park.

If you have a wedding venue: Does the venue allow dogs? And if so, is your dog well-behaved enough to not only participate in the ceremony, but do so in a safe manner? ie: Will your ceremony be taking place near a busy road or near cliffs, etc? Does your dog have good recall and react well to a variety of different stimuli? If you are having a larger wedding there will likely be inexperienced dog people present, and if so can your dog handle their inexperience?

If after considering the previous situations, you think you’d like to include your dog in your ceremony, you can do so in some of the following ways: ome fun ways to include your dog

  1. Have them be a “flower dog” - They can wear a lei or a flower crown and walk or run down the aisle.

  2. A “Ringbarker” - The pup can have the rings attached to their collar and walk down the aisle - either solo or on leash.

  3. “Dog of honor” or “Brides Dog” - The dog can accompany one of the brides people down the aisle and stand with the bridal party during the ceremony.

  4. A “Grooms Dog” or “Best Dog” - The dog can accompany one of the grooms people down the aisle and stand up with the during the ceremony.

  5. Accompany Bride or Groom down the Aisle - Instead of a parent or sibling, you can have your pup accompany you down the aisle.

#3 - Bring them while you get ready!

If you think you might be nervous or anxious you can definitely bring your furry companion with you while you get ready. Whether before an elopement or a larger wedding, this can yield really wonderful moments as you get ready for the big day.

#4 - Bring them with you to your post-ceremony couples portrait session

If you don’t think it would make sense to have them before or during the ceremony, maybe a friend or family member can bring them after the ceremony when you sneak off to do your couples portraits. This presents the dog with a lower stakes, and potentially safer, situation to interact and celebrate with you both!

#5 - If you are having a “Day-After session, bring the pup along!

Similar to engagement shoots, they are a much lower stakes and time sensitive situation to have a dog present. You are also able to allocate more attention to them than a sometimes chaotic or time-sensitive wedding day. You will likely still be in your wedding attire and can go on a little adventure that would be much more fun for your pup!

Whatever you end up deciding, having your best furry companion by your side in some way for your special day can make it so much more meaningful for you on the day, but also give you priceless images that will surely bring tears to your eyes down the road when you look back on these images in several decades.

"First look" before the ceremony or "Walking down the aisle" reveal?

So you’re deciding whether to see your partner for the first time on your wedding day before the ceremony or during, when you walk down the aisle. Traditionally, the bride walks down the aisle to their future spouse and sees them for the first time that way. In recent years, having a first look before the wedding has gained popularity. The idea is that you first see your future spouse prior to your ceremony! It’s usually just you two in an intimate location, away from the crowds. This gives you a private moment shared together before your ‘actual wedding’ even begins. Do we recommend doing a first look or an aisle reveal? It totally depends on YOU and how YOU want to feel on your wedding day. Here is a glimpse at what both options can look like.

FIRST LOOK
We had a “first look” on our wedding day. As a couple, we wanted to see each other before the ceremony started so that we can have that special and private moment of just us. Nobody else was there except us and our photographers who were quietly capturing the moments. We also realized that by doing a first look, we were able to have more time together throughout the day.

As photographers, we love first looks because that gives us (and ultimately, you) the chance to have more time for portraits of just you two. Potentially, it also leaves you time to do your family and wedding party photos before the ceremony starts. The biggest advantage of getting photos early is that it gives you more time with your guests!

WALKING DOWN THE AISLE

Seeing your future spouse for the first time walking down the aisle is truly special too. There is a reason why so many couples still opt for this. There is a certain magic with that grand reveal, being surrounded with all your family and friends. You get to share that special moment with everyone you love and care about. Some thing to consider is that there really is so much going on. There will be guests, photographers, possibly videographers, and everyone’s attention is on you. For us, it would have been hard to see and just focus on each other because of everything surrounding us. 
At the end of the day, how you choose to see each other is totally up to you. Ask yourself, how do you want to feel on your wedding day? Maybe imagine those feelings and see which of these moments would best fit you and your future spouse’s needs.